“You know, the smallest thing can change a life. In the blink of an eye, something happens by chance- and when you least expect it- sets you on a course that you could have never planned, into a future you never imagined. Where will it take you? That’s the journey of our lives; our search for the light. But sometimes, finding the light means you must pass through the deepest darkness. At least that’s how it was for me.”
The Lucky One is a 2012 film starring Zac Efron and Taylor Schilling and it opens with these lines from Logan Thibault, Zac Efron’s character. It’s one of the movies I love and is on a short list that I watch repeatedly. Even though I know the story well, it still resonates in my heart and mind and I think these opening lines are one of the main reasons why. Something relatively insignificant happens and you think nothing of it at the time. But it changes the direction and course of your life in ways you could never imagine.
One of my buddies in high school and I flipped a coin one night to see who could call a particular girl for a date. A coin toss- I won and called the girl for a date the next weekend. Just a coin toss and we will soon celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary and my whole adult life unfolded from the coin toss. My kids, my grandkids, whatever legacy I leave behind- all from a coin toss.
Forecasts, projections, predictions and probabilities are so much a part of our lives. We check the weather forecast and we look for predictions of how our team will do in the next game. There’s a big industry based on predictions- gambling. All kinds of statistics are collected, evaluated and analyzed to help us “know” how to place a bet or what to wear the next day.
But one has to wonder about the value of this information when your whole life is altered by something as insignificant as finding a photograph (in The Lucky One) or tossing a coin.